1000 web dates an in-the-trenches view of dating and relationships today

A Predictable Chat

Him: hello good morning
Me: same to you! how goes the day so far?
Him: good u?
Me: sorry, not as attentive as I'd like, lots going on here
Him: no worries
Him: would you possibly like to hang out sometime ?
Me: It depends I guess on what you're after.
Me: I'm blunt. No games here...
Him: spending time together
Him: cuddling , sex i dunno what ever happens
Me: Ok, Well I'm not after a friends with benefits kinda thing, sorry.
Him: no worries
Him: i am and take it from there
Him: see if it develops into something more\
Me: Although I hear where you are coming from.. its not something that appeals to me in the least. Its not that I don't like sex. I love it. But I find it kinda icky without a connection beyond physical.
Me: So best of luck to you in your search. I'm sure you'll be able to find exactly what it is you are looking for (and no, I'm not being sarcastic).
Him: i just got out of a relationship not looking to jump right back into one
Him: Fair enough. I understand that completely. But rebound gal isn't the kind of woman I like being, and all the reasons in the world won't change my mind on a deal-breaker.
Me: So feel free to say hey when you've processed the relationship somewhat... I know it can be a bitch.
Him: ok take care hope you find what you are looking for
Him:
Me: Thank ya, you too.